Episode 09 // Talking to the Fence: What to say - or NOT say - to people who are trying to decide if they want to have kids

Having kids is a big decision. Life changing in every way. This week we’re talking to Kelli - Heather’s amazing, 28-year-old closet nanny/babysitter - about what to say to people facing this decision. Yes, she's married, but that doesn’t mean the answer is “PROCREATE NOW!”

(There are two huge signs that flank one of the main entrances to BYU. On one side it says, "Enter To Learn" and on the other, "Go Forth To Serve." Heather and her college roommates always joked that it should say, "Enter To Marry, Go Forth to Procreate.")